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If the map doesn't agree with the ground, the map is wrong |
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1 | (5) |
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6 | (6) |
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It is difficult to remove by logic an idea not placed there by Zogic in the first place |
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12 | (6) |
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The statute of limitations has expired on most of our childhood traumas |
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18 | (6) |
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Any relationship is under the control of the person who cares the least |
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24 | (4) |
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28 | (8) |
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Be bold, and mighty forces will come to your aid |
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36 | (5) |
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The perfect is the enemy of the good |
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41 | (4) |
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Life's two most important questions are ``Why?'' and ``Why not?'' The trick is knowing which one to ask |
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45 | (5) |
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Our greatest strengths are our greatest weaknesses |
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50 | (5) |
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The most secure prisons are those we construct for ourselves |
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55 | (6) |
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The problems of the elderly are frequently serious but seldom interesting |
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61 | (7) |
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Happiness is the ultimate risk |
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68 | (7) |
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True love is the apple of Eden |
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75 | (5) |
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Only bad things happen quickly |
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80 | (7) |
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Not all who wander are lost |
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87 | (4) |
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Unrequited love is painful but not romantic |
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91 | (4) |
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There is nothing more pointless, or common, than doing the same things and expecting different results |
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95 | (6) |
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We flee from the truth in vain |
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101 | (6) |
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It's a poor idea to lie to oneself |
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107 | (4) |
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We are all prone to the myth of the perfect stranger |
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111 | (4) |
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Love is never lost, not even in death |
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115 | (4) |
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Nobody likes to be told what to do |
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119 | (6) |
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The major advantage of illness is that it provides relief from responsibility |
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125 | (4) |
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We are afraid of the wrong things |
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129 | (7) |
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Parents have a limited ability to shape children's behavior, except for the worse |
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136 | (8) |
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The only real paradises are those we have lost |
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144 | (8) |
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Of all the forms of courage, the ability to laugh is the most profoundly therapeutic |
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152 | (6) |
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Mental health requires freedom of choice |
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158 | (4) |
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Forgiveness is a form of letting go, but they are not the same thing |
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